Can i read your mind?

think closely.

Hello!

In order to perform this magical feat, pick a number between 1 to 10.

Now, multiply it by 9 and add the digits of that number. (i'm hoping i haven't lost you yet lol)
Now subtract five from that number and assign a letter to every number (1 is A, 2 is B, blah blah blah). Then think of a country that begins with the letter...
Now, think of animal that starts with the last letter of the country and what color is it?

Were you thinking.. A GREY ELEPHANT FROM DENMARK???

That was.. tiring lol. If I guessed right, then I got lucky. If I guessed wrong, please blame the creators of this website. I'm no magician, neither am I psycho. Ahem, Psychic? It seems exhausting. I don't have some crazy talent for empathy and I can't feel the sensation of your thoughts or the next words you'll say. I can't even say I believe in telepathy, it just seems really farfetched. Like, how would we know who's mind to read while in a room full of people? Does it zone in on one mind? It must be some super power aura typa feel. Though in some version of the Matrix, predicting thoughts and actions is totally a thing. I guess predicting is not it, maybe Edward reading minds in Twilight is more accurate? But before I run off on another tangent (I finally watched the new Matrix, my mind thinks it knows any Matrix theories lol), let me get back on track.

Once upon a time, or mostly all the times when I'm not mindful, I think I withhold this talent. I assume that someone ain't like this or I'll seem super weird for that. I think I know people’s answers and assume all the dumb things. I'm still sort of in that mode. I won't share that I write this blog unless I'm really good friends with someone or if someone mentions their own blog first. I instantly think or have been conditioned to think people will have a smirk on their face if I mention it and say "uhh.. okay" with all the I-could-not-care-less in their tone. (this is unfortunately a true story). When in some realities, I really have no idea what people think and I don't step back to fully acknowledge that before I even start doing all these mental gymnastics. There's that one running joke that goes something like , "man, you'd think I'd be more in shape with all the conclusions I jump to." that sounds odd, so that might not be the right saying.

So the short form response to the subject of this email is HELL NO. And sorry to break it to you pare, but neither can you. (butting in to say that pare means friend in Tagalog, it's been a while huh?) This title was mean clickbait. Well maybe when Elon releases his Neurolink brain chip thing, this might one day be possible. For the time being, I'm sure we all wish we could read minds. Perhaps it would relax our anxiety a lot more than having to seek out and patiently/awkwardly wait for a reply. It'll fix the issue if when we can't figure out what we may have done wrong to someone if they haven't told us yet. Shit, maybe we'd be able to give a little compassion to people who tell us white lies. We have gut instincts and that is a whole class of things I know nothing about so I can't particularly comment there. But I want to say that doesn't have to do with mind reading.

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Dave Goggin says,“The most important conversations you’ll ever have are the ones you’ll have with yourself. You wake up with them, you walk around with them, you go to bed with them, and eventually, you act on them. Whether they be good or bad, we are all our own worst haters and doubters because self-doubt is a natural reaction to any bold attempt to change your life for the better. You can’t stop it from blooming in your brain, but you can neutralize it, and all the other external chatter by asking, What if?”. While I totally don't have it in me to be balls out about these stuffs yet, I think reading his book Can't Hurt Me and Ryan Holiday's Courage is Calling has reminded me that maybe sometimes we should say fuck it, come what may. This is an on-going theme when I write and it seems like it's a personal project that I'll be working on for the rest of my whole damn life, I’ve consistently read multiple books about courage because i don’t have any lol .It helps to project and remind you too. We're all a work in progress anyways. We can't read minds. So, if you’re intentions are aligned and you feel like it's worth your time to reach out to someone, go ahead and ask them what's wrong if something seems off …or go pursue that random side project you've had on the backburner for awhile in fear of what your friends might think , you never know if it can resonate with someone else... or let's say the dude you met at the dog park who you've been crushing on for weeks now and took care of his dog for a few days while he was at Coachella.. I mean he already invited you camping multiple times and he brings you michies when you mention that you're craving one.. all hypothetically speaking, maybe you can be like "wanna goes ons a dates?" you never know what the answer could be, until you ask.

Say whatever, do whatever… but be mindful of course. You never know what can be unless you start. Dave Goggin's main theme in Can't Hurt Me is that you don't know what you're capable of until you get yourself to your threshold.

Except for me, obvi. I'm not there yet, pls send help. I need an adult lol
or if you can read minds for real, for real. pls reply.. i have so many questions.

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